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The Autumn of My Content

I don’t mean to preach but…..

I can do all things through him who strengthens me. – Philippians 4:13

I went for a quick run this morning. It was my first in months. I remember that a friend of mine who used to run track would say that Philippians 4:13 was his mantra when he ran. It was a reminder to keep pushing and maybe even to rely on strength that was outside of himself.

Philippians 4:13 is great as a mantra. It’s good for a bumper sticker. I know that it has been a pick me up for people in hard times and I would not dare take that away from anyone. But oftentimes, this passage is quoted as being about super heroic deeds. Like Jesus is going to give us the strength to lift cars.

Context is important. Most likely, this was written while Paul was imprisoned, nearing his execution. Put that context aside and just read the verses that immediately precede 4:13, starting at verse 10

10 I rejoice in the Lord greatly that now at last you have revived your concern for me; indeed, you were concerned for me, but had no opportunity to show it. 11Not that I am referring to being in need; for I have learned to be content with whatever I have. 12I know what it is to have little, and I know what it is to have plenty. In any and all circumstances I have learned the secret of being well-fed and of going hungry, of having plenty and of being in need.

and then he says “I can do all things through him who strengthens me”. Paul isn’t being strengthened to do some herculean feat. He is being strengthened to find contentment despite his circumstances. Well… maybe that is a feat.

I’ve had a shitty year. I’ve lost a lot. In almost all measurable ways, my life has contracted.  But this morning, after my run, I felt content. Content with a body that can carry me (slowly) for two miles. Content to have a place to live, food to eat, and a job to go to. I don’t have what I once had, but I have friends who have taken me in, people who love me even when I am obnoxious, my health, my wits, and a Mitsubishi Lancer that gets me where I need to go. Today I also have a little bit of money to go grocery shopping, so bonus.

fall at Marist manor

This is the view from my bedroom. The picture doesn’t really do justice to the autumnal beauty outside. I’ve never been a big on fall, but I am appreciating the changing of the seasons this year. The air is brisk. The scenery is beautiful. The pace has changed. Everything is changing. Fall is the a part of a dying and rebirth cycle that happens again and again. The leaves are exiting the stage and taking their final bow.

Paul’s words remind us that all of what we have is only for a season. We age. We Move. Relationships shift and change. Things decay. They die. New things are born. And they grow. The pictures of my daughter from December look similar to yet so very different from the little lady I held yesterday. Her baby cheeks are thinning into a toddler face. I had her babyface only for a season. Now I love her toddler smile. It’s silly to mourn the loss of a one year old, even an amazing one year old, when the two year old in front of me is delightful.

We shouldn’t be content with injustice. We shouldn’t be content with war. We shouldn’t be content with abuse. We shouldn’t be content with violence. We should reserve our discontent for those things. We shouldn’t be content with fellow humans not having the basics of life.

But for the blog writing and blog reading population, the basics of life can be (almost) assumed. We grow discontent by comparing our lives with those of others or by some imagined reality that we’re “supposed” to be living. Advertisers make a fortune off of our discontent. Contentment in our daily lives, then, is a revolutionary act. We resist the forces of “not enough” and “you’ll be happy when” by saying “what I have for this day is enough to get me through” or even “who I am this day is enough”.

It is a beautiful fall day. And for now, right now, I am content. I doubt this feeling will last through the day. May God give me the strength to continue to believe that what I have is enough and that who I am is enough.


About derricklweston

Father of two. I co-host God Complex Radio, a show highlighting progressive voices in the faith community. (godcomplexradio.com) I am an ordained minister in the Presbyterian Church USA. I like lots of stuff. Sometimes I write about that stuff.


3 thoughts on “The Autumn of My Content

  1. that was my mantra in high school track, too. Seems silly now.

    Glad to hear of contentedness. Enjoy it, my brother.

    Posted by chrishilf | October 7, 2014, 9:40 pm
  2. Your post reminded me of this:
    The Sacrament of Letting Go By Macrina Wiederkehr

    She celebrated the sacrament of
    Letting Go…
    First she surrendered her Green
    Then the Orange, yellow, and Red…
    Finally she let go of her Brown…
    Shedding her last leaf
    She stood empty and silent, stripped bare
    Leaning against the sky she began her vigil of trust…
    Shedding her last leaf
    She watched its journey to the ground…
    She stood in silence,
    Wearing the color of emptiness
    Her branches wondering:
    How do you give shade, with so much gone?
    And then, the sacrament of waiting began
    The sunrise and sunset watched with
    Tenderness, clothing her with silhouettes
    They kept her hope alive.
    They helped her understand that
    her vulnerability
    her dependence and need
    her emptiness
    her readiness to receive
    were giving her a new kind of beauty.
    Every morning and every evening she stood in silence and celebrated
    the sacrament of waiting.

    Posted by marciglass | October 8, 2014, 4:16 am

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