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father or child?

Thought from my spiritual director that I’ve been pondering: “Before you were ever a father you were a child”. The difference for me being defining myself at the height of my competency (to some extent) vs. defining myself by the height of my vulnerability (to some extent). Can I only be the person who gives, … Continue reading


“You fucked up. You’re not a fuck up”  This is what my friend said to me. I told my therapist. She asked me if I believed him. I don’t.  We’re defined in this world by what we do. If you kill someone one, you’re a killer. If you steal something, you’re a thief. If you … Continue reading